It’s been quite some times when I last heard my friends talk about "*** unite." it is our class motto which means that
"We’ll be together in every situation and circumstances"
Personally I think that motto won’t work anymore.
We were the intake of that particular semester, and everything seems to be pretty good itself. We attended classes during days and further discussion with classmates during night. It was so awesome to have friends like that. We were always being a helping hand to one another and will always be there when our friends need us the most.
But all those good deeds disappear as the time goes by. The competing between us started clean but it became worst. We started to get too busy to compete with one another until we kind of forgot what we had. All the helping and sincerity were totally gone. Some of us even use the dirty way to compete. Suddenly all of us became a totally new person.
As for me, I became a more less-talking and highly-observing person. I’ve tried to play cool but I couldn't. This is because I am afraid to let other knew my weaknesses because it will be my competitor strength. Frankly speaking, we compete like we were in politics. Every particular details counts and it may be used to annoys and ruin the performance of the rivals.
This COMPETING scenario was created by some of us. For that, the rest of us feel that we have to change some of our personality. This is because we felt unsecured and scared. But at the same time, we still wanted to make friends, so we draw a clear line in friendship.
Friendship supposed to be about sharing, love, and joy. But here in my class, friendship mean secretive and observant.
I just hope that we'll be fine again. Learn as a team! Work as a team!
By the way, competing is good; we just need to do it in a healthy way.
"We’ll be together in every situation and circumstances"
Personally I think that motto won’t work anymore.
We were the intake of that particular semester, and everything seems to be pretty good itself. We attended classes during days and further discussion with classmates during night. It was so awesome to have friends like that. We were always being a helping hand to one another and will always be there when our friends need us the most.
But all those good deeds disappear as the time goes by. The competing between us started clean but it became worst. We started to get too busy to compete with one another until we kind of forgot what we had. All the helping and sincerity were totally gone. Some of us even use the dirty way to compete. Suddenly all of us became a totally new person.
As for me, I became a more less-talking and highly-observing person. I’ve tried to play cool but I couldn't. This is because I am afraid to let other knew my weaknesses because it will be my competitor strength. Frankly speaking, we compete like we were in politics. Every particular details counts and it may be used to annoys and ruin the performance of the rivals.
This COMPETING scenario was created by some of us. For that, the rest of us feel that we have to change some of our personality. This is because we felt unsecured and scared. But at the same time, we still wanted to make friends, so we draw a clear line in friendship.
Friendship supposed to be about sharing, love, and joy. But here in my class, friendship mean secretive and observant.
I just hope that we'll be fine again. Learn as a team! Work as a team!
By the way, competing is good; we just need to do it in a healthy way.
I hate the dirty tricks already. Actually I am tired of it and I don't care anymore. To the competitors, feel free to do whatever you like. Just remember that what goes around, comes around that’s karma babe =)
.her thoughts.
